Guide to Stimulating the Prostate
Prostate stimulation is necessary for the overall well-being of the prostate health. On top of that, stimulation of the prostate gland can transcend you to the peak of orgasmic delight. Doctors often recommend prostate stimulation for easy ejaculation and smooth love life. Are you new to prostate stimulation and looking for some guidance? Well, prostate is a sensitive area and you have to know how to stimulate it the right way. But no worries- the post below offers a brief on how to stimulate the prostate effectively.
Locate the prostate
It all starts with locating the prostate gland in your body. The prostate gland is located 2-3” inside your rectum. It’s a small thing, something as little as a walnut. Try to find it by inserting finger in the butt. Finger is a good choice because it’s small & can be flexed easily while reaching out through anus. But, before you insert your finger, make sure to lubricate it well. You will just need the first couple of joints to reach up to the prostate.
A good way to locate the prostate easily is self-arousal. Do anything that will help you to arouse yourself. When you are aroused, the prostate gland gets enlarged which makes it more convenient to spot it inside the body.
Let’s proceed with the stimulation guide
Once you have a fair idea on the location of your prostate, the next step is to make preparations for prostate stimulation.
Fingers or massagers
First decide on the stimulation medium. Would you be okay with fingers? A lot of men prefer to use finger for stimulation for the best control on the overall process. But a massager is said to offer the maximum pleasure. If you are looking to buy a massager, keep these points in mind:
- Look for a trusted & reputed brand backed by happy users
- Begin the experience with a small massager with thin diameter initially
- Only go for a massager which is made from FDA-accredited non-porous materials
- The massager should be simple to clean
- For safe anal use, look for a massager with flared base
- If you want to control the massager manually, go for a one with handle
- Massagers with curve tip and bulbous head are the best for optimum stimulation
Calm down & clean yourself
So, now you are all set to begin your stimulating experience. You must be very excited now and little stressed too. But relax. If you are too tensed, the muscles in the anus region will get tensed too and won’t help you with insertion. So, one of the primary tips for an effective prostate stimulation is to calm yourself. Take a warm shower to cool down your nerves. Wash the anus area properly. If you are going to stimulate with fingers, cut down and clean the nails thoroughly.
Don’t get stressed. Contemplate on the amazing feeling you are going to experience from the prostate stimulation to inspire yourself. Light up some scented candles to create a soft relaxing mood. You can also play some relaxing music. Take deep breaths and prepare yourself mentally.
Lubrication is significant
Anus doesn’t have the capacity to self-lubricate. Thus, you have to lube up the area properly before starting with any insertion. But before you lube the anus, massage it well. Press the tip of your finger as if you are pressing on a doorbell & then release pressure. A good massage session will relax the muscles in the anal region to allow a smooth insertion for prostate stimulation. After that, you will lube up the internal side of the anus too. There are lube syringes which will enable you to lubricate the internal muscles of anus.
Then, you will lubricate your finger as well- the finger that you are going to insert inside for stimulation. If you are using a prostate massager, lube it.
Start the stimulation
Now, we have reached to the main part of our guide. Once you are completely relaxed and everything has been lubed up properly- you can start with the stimulation process. There are various ways to stimulate your prostate gland. But everything will depend on your preferences as the preferred stimulation movements tend to vary from one man to another. However, here are some most loved movements for an euphoric prostate stimulation-
- The doorbell movement on the gland as you did with your anus
- circular movements around prostate edge
- come-hither motion that replicates the classic fingering of vagina
- Movement of fingers in fast & random motion to arouse vibrations
Now, these are the stimulation tactics with fingers. We will now discuss how to stimulate with a prostate massager. We will talk about hands-free massager stimulation here.
Slowly insert the prostate massager into your anus. The good thing is you don’t need to use fingers to push it inside. If the internal muscles are well lubed, these will do it for you. Now, after the device gets into your body, start clenching the pelvic muscles. This movement will glide the massager to your prostate and press it for an enjoyable hands-free stimulation.
Find the right position
Your body posture is extremely important to ensure the best stimulation experience. You can squat or lie on the side or even lie down on back. Regardless of the posture you choose, just make sure you are being able to reach out to your prostate gland comfortably. You can use pillows behind your back or some extra support.
However, internal prostate stimulation may seem to be little scary for the beginners. To overcome the fear, experts suggest to start with external stimulation first. In external stimulation you don’t have to reach to the gland internally. Rather you will perform the stimulation from outside, on the perineum area, near the anus. The perineum area is located in between anus and scrotum. When you will massage the area, it will indirectly arouse your prostate gland as well. Once you are accustomed and confident with external stimulation, then you can move to internal massage.